How to Manifest an Amazing Relationship

 by Jafree Ozwald How to create an amazing relationship... This is, if not the most important, the most powerful thing we can learn as human beings. Our world is defined by the relationships we have or don't have with others, ourselves and life itself. For starters, the most vital aspect to manifesting an amazing relationship is focusing on what you LIKE about the person, instead of what you DON’T like. Whatever you put your attention on expands and grows, so why not look for what is sweet rather than sour? Anytime you focus on the negative, there is another part of you at work desperately trying to change them, and is secretly judging them for not being what they “should” be. The Universe is always exactly the way it should be in every moment; realize this and you’ve just become more enlightened. The world is your mirror, and relationships are your reflections in it. If you can always see this mirror, you will have amazingly successful relationships. When you are feeling triggered by a situation and you see something that you don’t like about another person, they are really REFLECTING that part YOU don’t like about YOU. What you see revolting about them is coming from your FEAR of becoming that terrible thing, or even worse the fact that YOU ARE THAT! There is always a mirror to be seen, and is best used when you are triggered. Sometimes its rather tricky to see especially if there’s a secret old hidden fear you don’t even know about behind the judgment. That’s why we there are LOTS of people with us on the planet. Relationships bring your hidden past life issues out of your closets, so you get to know ALL your hidden ego parts, good or bad. That way you know what you’re letting go of. The Universe really is quite brilliant in many ways, one being how it teaches us the life lessons we’re here to learn. Intimate relationships are the ULTIMATE teachers, especially the ones you let in deeply. Without intimacy (or revealing your heart) your soul struggles to advance, learn and grow. Intimacy (into-me-you-see) causes uncomfortably when you’re releasing attachment to your safe velvety rut of an ego-trip, and is also the most blissful experience of sharing one’s soul, also resulting in freedom from your ego. Intimacy is like everything in life, containing both negative and positive aspect depending on how you really want to see it. "I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody." ~ Bill Cosby Imagine the Sun was the size of a baseball, and around that baseball was this large magical prism of reflective glass that displayed all sorts of dazzling images, beautiful colors, and even heavenly sounds onto the walls. When you turned the prism a certain way, those images changed, sometimes becoming these terrible evil frightening images. The light remained the same however, constantly radiating it’s brilliance in all directions. Your mind/ego is this prism, your soul is the eternal Sun. Depending on the angle of the dangle, life can appear to be glorious or traumatic, and yet no matter how much you rotate that prism, the Sun never stops shining. "The more you depend on forces outside yourself, the more you are dominated by them." ~Harold Sherman The 5 secrets to manifesting amazing relationships 1. Focus on what you LIKE or LOVE about this person, instead of trying to change them into how you think they’d be better. 2. Always speak what is most truthful, reveal yourself completely without hesitation. 3. You are responsible for what you are feeling, they cannot MAKE YOU feel anything when you choose peace. 4. Total acceptance, appreciation and approve of yourself exactly as you are. 5. Enjoy the reflections in the mirror. They are not you, they come from attachments and avoidances of your ego. Many of us have had moments, days, weeks, and possibly even years of dis-harmony in a certain relationship. This can only happen when you’re avoiding looking at the mirror. More than you’d like to think, you are in denial about what you see in yourself, and is being reflected back to you in the mirror. You’ll have only generous loving connections with everyone when your mirror is dust-free and you’re aware of your reflection. It’s always those sticky, heavy, judgmental energies between you and another, which shows you the dust you’re trying not to see. If your relationship is already close and intimate and a mysterious dis-harmony shows up, retreat into yourself and focus on what you WANT to experience and go for it. You may notice the other person may back off or even try harder, causing you to pull in or retract. Like a duet of argumentative piano players, one starts pounding on the piano keys not being in synch with the other, perhaps trying to make the other sound or feel “better”, and their overall harmony becomes a discord. What’s needed here is a little self-approval and appreciation. "Life is like a great big grinding wheel. Whether it wears you down or polishes you up depends on what you're made of." ~Unknown Many blessings to you, Jafree www.ManifestingVibration.com

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